August 29, 2018

Live Your Best Quality of Life: Choosing Hospice Early Improves Life for Most People

By Mike Parmer, DO, Medical Director

As the Medical Director for postacute and palliative care services at CarePartners Hospice, the most common responses I hear from patients and families when I bring up the topic of hospice care is “Not yet” or “I am not ready for that.” This is a barrier to the best quality of life available for many people. A few thoughts to consider are:

Choosing hospice early improves life for most people. The change of focus from a “disease and cure” model to a “living your life” focus through aggressive symptom control has actually demonstrated in many disease processes to lengthen life as well as improve the quality. Some studies show that some people with end-stage disease can live 29-60 days longer with early enrollment in hospice care.

Hospice goals are your goals. The special design of hospice care is to help patients and families to make the most of the remaining time of life that we think we have. Through controlling symptoms that stop you from doing the things you want, hospice allows you to be more active and comfortable. I describe it as, “I don’t know how long or where this path will take you, but we (the hospice staff) will walk it with you.”

The path can change. Many people believe that once you are in hospice you “give up” in many ways. The medical care you receive is no longer focused on cure of disease but on helping you to feel better by addressing symptoms and conditions that compromise your quality of life. If you change your mind and want to go back to aggressive treatment, you can always revoke the hospice benefit and engage curative care again. It is rare to have this happen, but occasionally people will.

Hospice care is for the whole family. This is a very difficult time for patients facing the end of life and also family members facing the loss of a loved one. Through the multidisciplinary approach of using doctors, nurses, social workers, spiritual counselors, bereavement counselors, pharmacists, dieticians, music therapy and many different supportive care options, a program is put together to meet the family unit wherever they are on this path and help navigate the difficult care decisions and communication challenges that happen in this changing situation.

The take-home message is that “getting ready” for hospice earlier can be a great gift to people when aggressive, curative medical care is no longer delivering on the promise of a cure. The time comes for us all to change the focus from cure to care and make the end-of-life process that we all will go through (no exceptions) a life-completing and affirming event instead of a medically driven and controlled process. Choose hospice earlier to take control of what you want the end-of-life process to look like.

Mike Parmer, DO, CPE, FAAHPM, is Medical Director for post-acute and palliative care services at CarePartners Hospice.

CarePartners offers hospice care at the hospital, in your home or the Solace Center, an inpatient hospice facility with private rooms. To learn more about hospice services at CarePartners, call 828-255-0231 or visit